Adoption Rights Alliance runs a peer support group on Facebook with circa 2,500 members, made up of adopted people, natural parents and others affected by adoption. Everything discussed in the group is confidential, and membership is vetted to ensure that only those with a genuine connection to adoption are granted access. If you wish, you are welcome to join under a pseudonym, and if you do, please let us know in your application. The group can be accessed here.
As we are a completely voluntary, unfunded group with increasing demands on our time and energy, we very much regret that we are no longer able to answer individual support and advice queries.